I’m having more issues with my school and this front-desk lady (whom is now “in charge of” the foreign staff and all teacher-related things–former boss now resides on the computer in the library). I’m not being sarcastic or whatever–like really.
Anyway, a few things that have been grinding my gears:
1. I have a student in my second class that comes MWF and he’s the lowest in the class–low reading level/comprehension level/etc. I went down to the library, where he goes on T/Th to “read/do homework/do book comprehension tests” and he had been wandering around for the 20 minutes that I was there with my previous class and was still wandering when I came down before my next class–his would-be class if he was registered.
Anyway, I asked him what he was going to do for his next two hours and he shrugged (as he usually does when asked questions). I have seen him wandering on numerous occasions, not just this one, so I helped him pick out 3 books at his level and asked him to read them and do one comprehension worksheet (“book worksheet”) in the next two hours.
He said he didn’t have any paper or pencils today so I went up to my room, got some extras, came back down and got him sorted. We agreed that that was what he would do.
Boss (who now resides in the library, as I mentioned) called me into one of the small classrooms in the library and told me not to give the boy extra work. I explained that he was behind all the extra students and that he needed something to do during all the extra time he spends in the library. Boss said his parents don’t pay us for you do to do extra prep work to help him.
Um. I’ll wait.
I said that it wasn’t any trouble because there wasn’t really any prep work to do–I just picked out books with him (which he could technically do on his own, but I wanted to help him out this time around). It was basically end of story, don’t help him.
I decided later to just give him and two other students in another class extra homework for the days that they aren’t in class. Hopefully that will help him since I’m not allowed.
2. Ok, so I work 1:30-8:30 with a “10 minute break” between my 3 classes. The first class starts at 2:30 and I’m expected to be in the room at 1:30.
I put quotes around the break-time because with stragglers from previous classes and trips to the bathroom, and when the next class comes directly into the room after you leave with the previous one, there is little “break time”. Essentially under 5 minutes…if that. I actually have a rule now (for my sanity) that the kids aren’t allowed to ask for extra homework papers, etc until classtime officially starts so I can get all my stuff done with minimal interruptions.
Oh, and add surprise new students to this “break time” and maybe you’re starting to get an idea. I got 2 new students on Tuesday and 2 on Wednesday. Some of which were just sitting in my room when I walked in–extra copies of classwork, getting folders and homework papers put together (I already have a stack printed).
Anyway, the thought of eating might not have crossed your mind, but shockingly, teachers do get hungry as well. We (on all days prior to yesterday) were able to bring in a small snack or something to scarf down between classes or even get something from the convenience store downstairs.
Yesterday, I bought a small cup of ramen/instant noodles before my last class to tide me over til I ate a real meal after work. I brought it in and put it on my desk (2 minutes til class started–dismissed the second class and essentially ran down to the shop to get it). As soon as I walked in (I have brought in food countless times before, and many times I even bring in homemade stuff for my classes, or order pizza)–
ANYWAY, as soon as I walked in they were all like “ooooohhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!” and running out into the hall and around the room acting as though they hadn’t eaten for days and begging for some.
Second, how rude.
Anyway, I called them out on their behavior and FDL (front desk lady, in case you’ve forgotten) came in and said that I shouldn’t eat that food in the room because of the smell.
First, this has never been an issue before that moment.
Second, I hadn’t eaten since about 11am.
Third, these are the same people that eat seaweed snacks (smells like the devil) in the classroom.
Anyway, it’s not like I walk around the room with my cup of ramen. I eat a bite here and there when they’re doing group-work or taking reading tests, which the first 20 minutes or so of class. Which is why it hasn’t been an issue.
She said to go into the office and eat it–she closed the door and started speaking Korean to the class–which Korean is not allowed in the classrooms. I decided that it wasn’t worth it and went back in the room. I said that we had a schedule to follow and that I would just eat later. (Speaking Korean to my highest level class isn’t on the plan for today as well).
She went out and I had a chat with my students about why I was upset. I said their behavior was rude and asked how many of them had eaten dinner before they came (all of them) and many of them apologized and they understood what I was talking about. I broke it down very simply just to be sure and they all understood.
We carried on and it was as if it hadn’t happened.
As I was getting ready to leave, FDL came into my room and said she needed to talk with me. She asked if I had time right then (I didn’t) and asked if we could talk tomorrow (now today) about what happened.
She said she didn’t want me to call the children ‘rude’ because they might be upset and not understand.
I told her that we had a big talk about it and that they did understand.
She seemed surprised and said “Oh, really??”
Anyway, we’re apparently supposed to talk about it today. She has a habit of talking over people–usually at “staff meetings”. There was another teacher who had an idea for a problem we were talking about at the last one and she literally spoke louder to speak over him.
I still stand by what I told the kids and I think it’s definitely within my right to call them rude if they’re being rude. If I do not have a breaktime (and I think it’s bad form on my part to be eating away in the office while class is in session) and I work from 1-9 essentially…
They’ve learned a lot of life lessons in our class and I think learning not to beg others for food is a good one.
I also think that having all three of my classes at capacity with high parent approval shows something.
Other lessons featured in my classes: (This is for my own personal enjoyment)
*Please/Thank You are required
*Pushing in your chair when you leave your desk/table
*Helping others: General Knowledge
*Helping others-Part 2: When someone drops their pencilcase/folder on the floor and everything flies everywhere onto the floor (AKA: Don’t sit there like a dummy and watch–come help!)–Note: I don’t use the word dummy or any equivalent.
*No pushing/wait your turn/Hands to yourself
*Clean up after yourself
*Hold the door for the person behind you
*Don’t laugh when someone else makes a mistake (especially a reading mistake/has trouble with reading…or you will receive my wrath. JokingButNotJoking)
*Raise your hand to speak/don’t shout at me
*Ask questions. Lots of questions. Be curious. Especially if you don’t understand or need help. (This is HUGE here. It’s considered essentially lowering yourself/”lose face”, but bosses are known to either make up something or lie rather than say they don’t know. If my kids leave me learning one skill, I want it to be this one. Don’t be afraid to admit fault and be curious.)